7.3 Tantric massage from woman to man: face, abdomen, perineum, and lingam.

She will connect with him either on his chest with both hands or with one hand on the abdomen and another in the heart

She will breathe with him to reconnect, an erotic way to do it is to interconnect with his ear

Once interconnected and she considers it she will stand at his head, having it between her legs she will start by offering a massage on his face, starting from the forehead outwards, slow and quiet and from then chin outwards

When she sees fit starting at the chin and using her thumbs, she will massage out in lines heading to the lips and return to the chin with both thumbs, gradually going towards the lips

She will bring a little wine to moisten her lips, she will try at all times to tighten the buttocks, perineum and stomach inwards and to remember his base chakra breathing to move all his sexual energy

She will start with the lower lip and continue with the upper one

she will drip oil on his lips

Once done, she will massage his chest with a feather caress and slowly she will take the sarong to remove it, this time from the feet to the head, causing a completely different sensation

The sarong will be caressing not only his body, but his lingan as well

Remember that the sarong can be a metaphor to remove all the problems we have from the past and face the conscious present

She will place the sarong on a side of the futon, she will look for the oil again and place herself at his head activating the erogenous zones of the shiva

First under the ears and this time she will touch a part of his lobes by doing it so an erotic energy will be generated in different sensual areas in his whole body

Once sensual area is activated she will go to the clavicles, to the bones that are on the chest

When the clavicles are activated she will go to the armpits

When these are activated she will drip oil just on his pubic area, using her index and middle fingers to make concentric circles in that area, making again a metaphor of the kunda energy that can awaken the massage in this phase

From there both fingers will move towards the neck very slowly, as if it were a snake, as it was done on the back

Once is done, the same pass will be repeated with the other hand and this time can stimulate the pubic area before going up to the neck, the same thing that was done with the other hand

She continues to squeeze buttocks, perineum and stomach inward

Then she will place his hands on his own buttocks, she will look for oil and drip it onto the front of his body, trying not to touch the nipples

Now she will start to activate the nipples, she will drive oil on one of them, the left nipple is recommended which is the feminine part of the shiva

From the outside with the index finger and middle finger will begin to caress without touching the nipple, avoiding the areola at first to start touching it little by little, taking time feeling how that erogenous zone begins to activate in him

She will go from the areola slowly to brush the edge of the nipple and then touch it

Once the nipple is stimulated, the chest will be massaged using the palm of the hand then activate the other nipple, oil will be dripped and this time she will activate the male erotic part of him, this time the touch will be much more intense, she will go with the nails around the nipple without touching the areola, she will press there

Automatically both erotic polarities will begin to interconnect, she will try to do it with a little more pressure, until pressing the areola and she will continue with her base chakra breathing

Now she puts pressure on the nipple and will do so abrasively when touched, automatically the left nipple will begin to generate a much more profuse and deep erotic energy, she will begin to massage his pectorals, one hand in each, she will extend the stroke to the ribcage and from there to the abdominal area, to the back, the more she touches the back the more erotic energy will be generated in the front of the body

Very slowly, when she decides she will drip oil onto both armpits again, then using her nails she will touch that area, from the arm to the armpit

The erotic energy that will be generated will be much deeper since she will be stimulating an area that is never touched in this way

Once this is done both hands will begin to move sexual energy from arms and armpits towards the chest and from there to the abdominal area and then to the back, she will begin to move that energy more forcefully

She will match the stroke one hand going down and the other going up, matching the touch of the massage with her nails, with the whole hand, then she will go to his arms, forearms and take his hands returning them to the original position that he had

She will breathe in each of his ears before continuing the massage to go to the feet, remembering the interconnection that both have from prana

She will then carry the oil with her to his feet, checking if it is enough to proceed, both continue to breathe interconnected through prana and through the same frequency that they have generated until today

Very slowly she will drip oil from her forelegs to his legs

Then the oil will be smeared on both legs at the same time, It can be done with a feather caress and erotic stroke to start raising the sexual energy in him remembering that there is a stage of sexual energy

Stimulation, eroticization, sensualization and sexualization

Little by little the line will be firmer, the thumb will go towards the crotch area, touching perineum a little and she will return on the outside of the leg, stimulating to generate energy of pleasure

The more delayed the pleasure the greater it will be, the less the lingam is touched, the greater sexual energy will be generated and the more the shiva will want to be touched

When she sees fit, the massage movement on both legs will be much more intense

and when she decides, the touch will rise to the abdomen, towards the chest, to move all the energy from him

At the moment she decides whether to approach his crotch, on knees she will stretch shiva´s legs on his own legs, preparing the shiva to receive the lingam massage

She will drip oil right on the lingam trying to go to the pubic area, to the phallus, to the scrotal sac

Once this is done, slowly, hand after hand, she will slide from the abdomen to the phallus, without touching the glans, calling the sexual energy to the lingam

She will then massage the perineum, she could do it with the index and middle fingers touching the entire perineal muscle

With the other hand she can continue to move the energy throughout his body or in erogenous zones

She will place the testicular sac towards the abdomen and then hand after hand she will massage from the perineum towards the scrotal bag, rising sexual energy towards the phallus, remembering that it is not just a massage to produce pleasure, but that the shakti is carrying out a cleansing of the urinary system from him

Once this is done she will take the scrotal bag with one hand and massage the testicles with the other, she can varies her touch with her fingertips, with her nails or with the palms of her hands

When she considers it she may change hands

The testicles represent the ida and pingala channels in the human body

and it is a polarization of energy

Ida and pingala are connected through the testicles to the man´s nostril, running down his spine, they represent the polarization of the masculine and feminine in man

Once this is done, her right palm hand will rest on his testicles and phallus and press clockwise

Without fear of hurting him, she will maintain that pressure and will provide more blood flow to the penis increasing the erection, with the other hand she will move sexual energy in erogenous zones, on the nipples, in the ears, in the crotches, in the arms, in the hands and in his anal labia

Then she will drip oil on the genital pubic area, she will drip it into the phallus, in the scrotal bag and gently will scratch the phallus

Very slowly she will rest her hand on the phallus and they will do hand after hand from the head to the testicles

When she believes it she will place the phallus towards the testicles she will grab it and pour oil on it

Slowly with a single finger she will massage the frenulum, the frenulum represents the second G-spot of the man, it represents the beginning of the brahmanadrer which is the medullary part of the sushumna channel, the one that precisely interconnects the sexual energy with the sacred energy of man, it directly interconnects to the higher chakras

Once this is done, the same finger will go the lips of the head of the glans and then at the head of it, on the crown

The pass on the crown can be done with the index finger, tracing it around

She will hold very firmly the phallus of the shiva and will massage with the palm of her hands at the head of the glans, remember that a man's phallus does not need to be erect, since all the sexual energy of the shiva will be distributed throughout the body

Once this touch is done, she will be able to expand all the sexual energy throughout his body using both hands, touching his head, touching his ears, erogenous zones, soles of the feet, back causing bodily orgasms through the expansion of sexual energy

When she believes it, the shiva will make a full-body orgasm through the great emptiness

She will ask him to inhale and exhale several times, and to start to tense up his body When the shiva is ready he will tense his whole body, hips up, the tongue on the palate and tense the eyes, when he exhales she will distribute all the energy and it will be done by generating a full-body orgasm

The full-body orgasm fuses the 3 bodies of being: the physical, the energetic and the causal bringing the shiva to a state of semi ecstasy